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If you go to any major city in China, you will invariably run into the foreign man-Chinese woman pairings in any major tourist or shopping destination; not so with foreign women and Chinese men.
There are hardly enough books depicting foreign women with Chinese boyfriends or husbands. West Wind Buck, Pearl S. Oriental Novels of Pearl S. Several years ago, when my husband enrolled in a New Oriental class in Shanghai for GRE prep, the instructor warned all of the Chinese men: When you have a Chinese husband or boyfriend, sometimes you feel as if you belong to a lonely club.
One of my dearest e-mail friends, a woman from Germany, once found me on the net because she had a — then — Chinese boyfriend and yearned to find someone to share her experience with. So I began to wonder — why are there so few Chinese guys and foreign girls becoming couples? Of course, some of it has its roots in the usual stereotypes — stereotypes in the Western World. Rarely have they been depicted with traditionally masculine traits.
Lacking machismo, they almost never get the girl. However, the subtext is often that foreign women are a dangerous choice — too casual, the temptress, etc — or could not accept a Chinese way of life.
Generally, the pressure to split up comes from the family since, after all, in China, marriage is a family affair. There was one Chinese boyfriend who told me, flat out, that his parents would never accept me. Even my own husband was first told by his parents that he could be friends with a foreign girl, but not date her. Fortunately, their ideas changed when they met me in person! On the other hand, there are Chinese men — and their families — who would be happy to have a foreign woman in the family.
But there are other complications. For example, my good friend in Hangzhou, Xiao Yu, once told me that some Chinese men cannot overcome their feeling of inferiority — that being an American girl, a citizen of one of the most powerful countries in the world, made my presence somewhat intimidating. According to Xiao Yu, some Chinese men could never believe that such a girl would become their one and only.
A driver who took me to the Beijing Airport this summer admitted he once had a Russian girlfriend when he was a college student. But he said he was never able to satisfy her yes, in that way , so they parted. The experience was so traumatic that he never sought another foreign girlfriend again. On the flip side, I suspect that some foreign women might be unwilling to give Chinese men a chance because of money.
Average Chinese men tend not to earn big salaries in China, unless they are, for example, bosses, high-powered execs, or an in-demand talent. And if they are to leave China to go to her country, they will face even more obstacles to earning money — language, culture, prejudices. Still, despite the odds, sterotypes and other barriers, it does happen that Chinese men and foreign women get together. On occasion, it even creeps into the news, like this story. But because I love him.
Or are you a Chinese man dating or married to a Chinese woman? What did I miss? I too, am a white woman with an Asian male partner. I do know, however, that we draw interested eyes. Actually, I did mention Repeat after me in there it was right after Foreign Babes — and I agree, the book is even better than Foreign Babes.
Hi, I came accross your site after I googled English girls and Chinese guys. In some posts on here it states how Chinese see educational achievement higher than anything else, but being a bit geeky myself I thought it wouldnt matter. So a mixture of being controlled and him staring at me all the time because he thought i was awesome was really full on. Any thoughts on this? I think your unscientific suggestion holds some truth to it.
There is something to be said for that golden green card and, later, foreign passport, which liberates the Chinese from, among other things, those hukou headaches. My exceedingly unscientific guess is that many of us first go to China for personal reasons to improve our Mandarin, career opportunities, interest in the culture, etc and therefore are already committed to the country.
On the other side, our husbands, if they have specialized talents or skills, may feel more comfortable pursuing their career in their home country where they might feel less marginalized , or may simply see many more opportunities in China.
Plus, the support of your Chinese family could be a bonus depending on your relationship with the inlaws, of course! I would agree there is racism in China, which is often not recognized. I would argue that many more Chinese women simply are looking for love that may not be so available in China because they are divorced HUGE stigma in China , or too old women 30 or older are often considered undesirable as wives. I grew up in a progressive American town with traditional Asian male role models my judo instructors.
That makes me unusual, I know. However, I cannot think of a combination more prone to heartache than a typical Western woman and a traditional Eastern man. You note how hard it is for the Easterners to accept the Western woman. I spent 6 years with a man of Chinese origin, five of those years in Asia.
Hardest thing I ever did. I think Chinese men, not ethnically Chinese, but as actually from China are disgusting. They are rude, smell bad, treat women like shit, and are usually uneducated and stupid. To think that one whole nation is bad is a symptom of brainwashing.
Pookie is just a jelly white loser who dated an Asian girl with citizenship offer. I think Chinese culture is more racist than most realize. Since men are generally more invested in the privileges accorded them by that culture, they are less likely to want a woman from another culture, especially one that may threaten Chinese cultural norms.
You see this pattern in Japan or in Taiwan; yet, men in those countries will fairly often marry foreign women, but ones from lower status in other lower status Asian countries. Japanese men with poor Vietnamese wives, etc. And yes it is true that there are far more Chinese women with foreign men, but a great many of those couples break up, and sad to say, a good many of those marriages are based on the woman cheating the man so she can get a visa to live in Europe or America definitiely not Vietnam.
I think the cultural barriers and negative stereotype is the biggest hurdles within a relationship. Traditional Chinese by cultural instinct tend to be conservative, not just in relationship but in every part of their social life. If you look at Chinese people and how they are brought up, then you would understand how this psychological dynamic works, it is quite fascinating from both psychological and cultural anthropology point of view.
But most people with any sort of mental capacity would know that these thinkings are not always true, and sometimes outright wrong. However, since most Chinese people are brought like that, and most of their reference groups are also Chinese people with similar upbringing, therefore chinese people tend accept these myths as the law of the land.
The second problem, which is that Chinese people marry not just for the sake of marrying. Also, divorces are seen as a big no no in China, despite the fact that it is increasing in the major chinese cities each year.
And most Chinese people have this false notion that people in the western societies have a higher divorce rate. Lastly, Chinese have a mentality that most westerners women are a nymphet, probably from all the stories they heard from the so called trustworthy source, which is further reinforced by some strange news media reports. While, from a pure genetic and physiological point of view this is true; as the Chinese people tend to have less exercise when they are young nerds anyone and people with the brain not the brawn tend to be more successful at finding mates, which feeds back onto itself to create the ultimate geek.
Furthermore, those Chinese people whom tend to migrate overseas are not the hard labourers, but people with certain degrees of education, which almost all Chinese aspire to as the ultimate form of life achievement. So basically nerds breed nerds…. So for those Chinese men whom are brave enough to go against their upbringings and date a western women, heavy odds are stacked against them. Also, the fact that unless the lady has significant Chinese cultural and language skills, there will be a large communication barrier.
While, for those Chinese man whom dates and marry a western women, then like in most relationships they will have arguments about certain things. Then there is a matter of sex, which brings up further point of conflicts.
As they say no relationship is ever lasting, and it will only last as long as you want it to last. Also, most westerners tend to be quite straight forward in their criticism, and most Chinese men are bad at taking criticisms. However, not all is lost, as more ABC Chinese kids are dating and marrying western girls. These relationship is usually more stable, as ABC Chinese kids have probably grown up in the western society, can speak English and are not that overtly negative about whom their children dates, as long as they are not some druggies, criminal or other undesirables.
But, there are only two kinds of men regardless of being under Western, or Eastern Tradition. My impression of the first being manly in manner of speech, not-so-cool, uncivilized, and always following the rules just like why they are from a nation that joined The Plain Language Organization.
The second being outgoing, effeminate, civilized, very expressive, and more open. There is no compromise. I checked it out of the library and returned it halfway in. That image pervades society and it affects us daily. I have lots of friends who admit they feel sheepish or intimidated around non-Asian girls, and all their wit and charm fly out the window.
Hopefully we all start lightening up. We feel it regularly here ourselves, in microaggressive actions towards my husband. For example, when he came back to his grad student office which he shares , the other students had moved his desk behind the door — without asking his permission — to give his most coveted window spot to another girl. Most foreign women who come to China have at least a BA, whereas until recently it was rare for Chinese people to get a higher education.
In China, just like in the US, guys feel awkward about dating a woman who has a higher educational level than they do. That was something that kept me apart from a man for a long time but we are going to try to get over that.
However, because more and more young people coming to China to study, and more and more Chinese people going to the US to study, I think more young people will get a chance to meet and fall in love in a natural way. More Chinese men than before are going to college, and Chinese salaries seem to be rising relative to expat ones. Problem 4 still remains, I guess, but I hope over time, people will become less prejudiced.
I mean, there are more than half a billion men in China. Is it so hard to believe that some of them would be cool? Your experience as an American white woman in China, reminded me of my own experiences as a Japanese woman in her own country, Japan.
Some people want to be leaner, and others would like more hair; but if there were one thing I could change about my physical appearance, I would like to be a few inches taller. I'm not extremely short, but at 5 foot 9, I'm an inch shorter than the average American male and a lot shorter than some of the business leaders I've met. You might say that if being 5 foot 9 is the only thing I have to worry about, I must have better things to write about. Perhaps, but I do think height affects how people perceive you in the work force and therefore subtly affects your potential success in some careers.
One of the reasons I left the corporate world early was that I didn't feel I was getting much respect. Out of college I started selling radio advertising for a Toronto-based broadcaster. But in the radio business, you start at the bottom, which for me meant taking a job in Sudbury, a small mining town four hours north of Toronto. I inherited a dormant customer list and within a year turned it into a thriving book of business.
Having put in my time and proved I could sell, I felt I deserved a job in the big city. I applied for an open position in Toronto, and shortly after the interview I was turned down. I was told something about "not being ready. Did my height have anything to do with not getting the job? I don't know, but I'm pretty sure my physical appearance didn't help. I was young, short ish , and did not fit the mold of a radio sales executive at the time.
It was a field made up mostly of former high school jocks and tall, attractive women. In the ensuing 20 years, I've been doing an informal height survey of business leaders. When I met Tim Ferriss, the superstar entrepreneur, author, and impresario, I was not surprised that he, too, is vertically challenged--a smidge shorter than me, I would guess.
Shortly after meeting Ferriss, I met the president of business banking for a large Fortune bank, and sure enough, he was about 6 foot 3. Then I started observing business leaders in a social setting and I noticed that taller people were generally carrying most conversations.
If a short person was getting any attention at a cocktail party, it was often because the person was very loud or flamboyant. All things being equal, most eyes wander to the tall. Since my observations are probably biased because of my insecurities over my height, I decided to embark on a slightly more scientific study. I wanted to compare the average height of the CEOs of the 10 largest companies in America with that of a selection of successful entrepreneurs.
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