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So, to reaffirm, I want to make this clear. Most guys are pretty good instinctively at picking physical attractiveness in women. In fact, you know what? That brings up a good point. Guys, you know what a hot girl is for the most part, physically? The girl that you think is hot.
So, what are some of those big ones? Willpower, conscientiousness, and then all of that stuff like the social proof, the social status, the aesthetic proof — not just her physical beauty, but her sense of style and clothing and her apartment and all of that. Not just in terms of making you have a great time with a woman, but avoiding all sorts of trouble that can happen. Women to avoid will be a big part of this podcast, but I think you brought up a good point.
The two are one-night stand or very short-term mating and then the second type is any future beyond one or two physical interactions, right? You have a much broader field.
If you want a future, then it becomes a little bit more complicated, you need to pay more attention to more things. Men are very competitive to try and have sex, but are very selective about who they date. So, what are some of the specific examples, Dr. I think the most important thing is a small set of traits to watch out for, sort of red flags and warning signs—.
Do we want to talk about girls to go for and then girls to avoid? So, to be real clear about this, if you just want to fuck, find girls that just want to fuck! I get so much value from this podcast. We get emails about this all the time. What can I say to make her just want to hook up? If you just want to have sex, find girls that just want to have sex. I just want to have sex. How many sexual partners does someone tend to have over their lifetime?
So, for females, their socio-sexuality, we know, tends to correlate with…the best predictor of the future is the past. How many guys has she been with? Maybe, Nils, if you have a good radar for that. But a lot of it is about how she talks about her ex-boyfriends or even calls them boyfriends. And word choice is a big part of that. What are some other things that correlate with — what do you call it, high socio—.
Well, political liberalism, honestly, correlates pretty well with that. There are a subset of those girls who say all that sort of stuff and then are fucking dirty dudes in the alley, like, guys like me.
Not a super positive strategy. So, not really recommended, right? Also, the way she talks about other women. At least in public. But if you still want to keep dealing with her, then make sure she knows that nothing you do with her anyone will ever find out about. So, political liberalism, openness. I was reading something about this. I forget where I read it. I mean, if you want to be a skeevy dude, this is the way to do it.
But girls who travel, definitely. Other women understand this a lot better than guys do. That does not mean she wants to sleep with any random guy. That contradicts everything we have said for the past fifteen podcasts. Am I maximizing my short-term mating attractiveness attributes? Not always, but generally speaking. Is there anything else you should look for in women? Actually, I do have data on that, and…yeah. See, I would be interested not based on the number of tattoos but location.
What are the things in my social group or the places I hang out that indicate girls are into short-term mating? Is she wearing a wedding ring or an engagement ring? You would not believe how oblivious guys are to this. The first thing that a woman notices about a guy apart from body size and faces, she looks at the ring finger, right? If I was single, I would take you home right now. Get out of here. Well, going to a bar and going to a bar to meet somebody are not the same thing.
Like, I would say if she smokes, done. You have to actually think and you have to actually have some experience and you have to apply it to the situation in life. And rode up on the Harley and is sitting at the bar with her legs open. We should talk about Bayesian logic in regards to hooking up.
I bet the nerds would get that. I feel like I have a lot of experience in this subject. So, the first I avoid — and this is me; this is after a lot of experience — is super bright red lipstick. A dark red or even a medium shade of red is fine. You might have a great night with her, okay?
But in my experience, I avoid those girls. The other big signal for me are big earrings. Big hoop earrings, like, big. We could tell the feather boa story. God forbid your wife ever listens to this, right? Guys, a lot of the things that indicate crazy in short-term partners also indicate very open to sex.
This is especially for younger guys who have a lot of energy, like going to bars, want to hook up with a bunch of women, right? You kind of fall into my category. They are a disaster. And you might not suffer it two or three or four times. I have dealt with a lot of crazy women, which obviously says something about me and where I was at that point in my life, as well. It took me years to understand. Guys, listen to this. How could it make sense that the average number for men is, like, ten and the average number for women is, like, seven or whatever it is?
The girls who are ten times the normal or twenty or thirty or fifty times the normal, generally are crazy and usually not fun crazy. That can be toxoplasmosis which is, like, crazy cat lady. That can be manic-depressive, that can be drug addiction. These are real fucking problems. These are real mental issues, right? In fact, in my career, a large portion of the stories in my books are about the price I paid for fucking crazy girls.
I mean, we could talk about…. They were so dramatic and fascinating and I was a psych major, so of course I loved crazy women. But it took me so long to learn what that blast radius could consist of. One thing is those kinds of women tend to be pretty impulsive, like low-conscientiousness. That means they typically have sex with a lot of guys and not always safe sex, right?
So, one thing is sexually-transmitted infections. I can hear dudes right now, and I said this too.
Try to reserve the hard-and-fast-pounding for when you need to do it to climax. You should retrain yourself to enjoy more subtle sensations. It will prolong sex and enable you to fuck her in a way that gives her a LOT more pleasure. This applies to anal sex with both men and women.
The key is lubrication and time. There are two rings of muscle that are contracted inside an anus. The first one, is relatively tight, but the second one more so. A good way to start anal play is with a single finger and alot of lubrication. This will key you into what direction to take with the person. Gentle, slow working will make the person feel more at ease with the physical act.
Then work another finger in and do some gentle thrusting. It is important to make sure your nails are short and dull. Once you have them loosened up for two fingers, then you can introduce ether a toy, or begin some actual fucking. Then start slowly making sure you are completely lubricated.
Once you get them comfortable enough you can fuck as fast as your partner can take. Taking anal sex requires a little planning. If it is your first time being fucked you should restrain from eating or drinking for a 12 hour period.
Then an enema should be performed until the water runs as clear as possible. When taking the first finger gently press down as if you were trying to move your bowels. Swipe right on a ton of girls. Swipe right on any girl that you would be remotely interested in sleeping with because with dating apps you have to cast your net extremely wide.
Because let's be honest, you're not going to message have the girls and they're probably not going to message first. It's harder to message first when you don't know the person.
They're going to feel less obligated to reply since they don't know you. It's hard to establish that connection with a bad pickup line and a cheesy gif. Message a large number of your matches and see if anything sparks! Set a time to meet up at a bar or a party and see if anything catches fire in real life! Do you know a girl, but not well enough to have her number? Do you and a girl habitually like each other's tweets, but never really talk?
Maybe it's time to actually talk to your WCW. There is no harm in sliding into a girl's DMs. It's less nerve-wracking then messaging a girl you already know pretty well, and you're more likely to get a response than you are by hitting on Tinder girls. Like one of her tweets or grams and then follow it up with a compliment in her DMs.
Don't be afraid to be a little more flirty than you usually would be; girls get plenty of guys sliding into their DMs, you're going to definitely need to stick out from the pack if you want a response. If she responds, take that as a good sign and try to keep the conversation going.
If you can manage to keep a conversation going in her DMs, then try to transition the conversation from online to in person by asking her if she has plans or if you could buy her a drink sometime.
Now that you have initiated contact with a potential hookup, it's time to get your flirt on. If you want to get laid, you need to cultivate that connection with sincere compliments, well-timed jokes, and occasional subtly sexy innuendos. A lot of guys are flirtatiously inept. However, a general rule of thumb is that if you're making her sincerely laugh, then you're probably doing a good job.
These steps that you need to somewhat nail if you want to nail her. Flirting isn't strictly limited to what you say and the vibes you give out.
Flirting is highly physical as well. Your body language says just as much about what you want as your words do. Make sure that when you're talking with your girl that you keep your body language open and inviting. If you're sitting down, point you knees and feet at her. If you're standing make sure to stand across from her or pivot your body toward her when talking in a group.
Don't cross your arms or put something physical — like a backpack or briefcase — between the two of you; these are examples of closed body language and may give the impression that you're not into her.
Another thing you should do to make sure you're giving her all the right vibes is to touch her. And no I don't mean inappropriately hopefully that'll come later.
When you're hanging out — whether you be at a bar or in private — try to make 3 points of contact. A few examples include reaching out to brush her hair away from her face, touching her hand, touching her shoulder or looping your arm with hers while walking. These points of contact should be affectionate without being overtly sexual, and purposeful. Accidentally brushing her hand with yours does not count. I'm a believer that for some alcohol is certainly liquid courage.
But I'm also an active believer that for most too much alcohol is fuel for stupid decisions. That being said, I'm not totally against drinking when trying to hookup. Sometimes a beer or two, or three is what you need to build the courage to talk to that girl at the bar or finally ask her if she wants to "get out of here".
I am however against sloppy drunk hookups, especially when you're hooking up with someone for the first time. Odds are you probably don't know them very well, or if you do, you don't know them sexually at all.
Knowing and trusting someone even if it's only a little bit is important even when you're looking for a fling. So stick to wine or beer if you can't trust yourself to go overboard on the liquor.
Make sure you order a glass of water in between drinks and actually drink it. Don't worry about looking like a square when watching how much you drink; you'll look mature, cool, and collected. The last thing you want to do is have one-too-many and completely ruin your chances with a girl. Next to humor, confidence is paramount when it comes to closing. If you don't think you're capable of closing, you're probably not going to close.
Feeling confident is something everyone has to work on. It's a total fake-it-till-you-make it scenario. Even if you're insecure, you need to put on a front that you're somewhat confident. This is why grooming is so important in the hooking up equation; because even if you don't feel like the most confident man in the room, dressing well will help you get there.
Plus, no well-groomed guy is going to look like they lack in self-esteem. However, there is a huge difference between acting confident and cocky. For some, it's hard to toe that line. So when you're speaking, have a filter. Make sure that nothing coming out of your mouth sounds douchey and self-obsessed. This is why it's important for a lot of guys to watch how much they're drinking; for a good amount of guys they become more cocky with each drink.
Believe me; I understand that you want to get laid. I understand that if given the option, you'd probably want to get laid right here and right now. I understand how you might feel a sense of urgency, especially if you're in the midst of a particularly lengthy dry spell. And sex is fun. But no what's not fun? Feeling like you're getting pressured into sex. So… don't get pushy. It's not cute, and it will do nothing to get you laid.
When it comes to flirting — especially when it comes to humor — it's very important to match her tone. Let's say you have a very vulgar sense of humor and she isn't nearly as filthy as you. You're going to want to tone it down a little bit until your remarks clearly don't cause discomfort. If you clearly make her uncomfortable with any of your jokes dirty, political, or otherwise apologize and change the topic. The same goes for being forward. You don't want to be overtly sexual with your comments and compliments if she's clearly not finding it flattering.
There are ways to be forward without being explicit. That being said, there are girls who are sexual as fuck when it comes to flirting. If you find one of those girls, congrats. If they're willing to be outright freaky in the streets, she's probably just as freaky in the sheets.
Once things start getting hot and heavy, it might be difficult to figure out what to do next or how to far to go. Hooking up is a broad term. Hooking up could mean anything from getting to second base to doing anal… it just depends on your definition of the word which is important when it comes to the actual act of hooking up.
Since people have different definitions of the word and have different ideas of how far they're willing to go based on the situation, hooking up is a total gray area. So, when you're hooking up you're going to have to make a lot of sense of all the gray; you're going to have to figure out what's black and what's white.
The obvious solution to this is to communicate. Don't be shy about asking what she wants from you or how far she's willing to go. You might feel awkward about outright asking if she wants to have sex, but she'll be turned on by the fact that you actually asked. You should be golden so long as you're keeping everything safe and consensual as well as sexy, but here are a few Do's and Don'ts when it comes to dickin' her down. Girls come in all shapes and sizes, but this tip is for all my short girls out there.
Short girls never have to worry about being too tall for guys, but what they do have to worry about is being too short. So when you're making out with a shorty, make sure you're taking her height into consideration. While short girls won't mind getting with tall guys because every girl is into the tall, dark, and handsome type , they might regret their decision the next morning when their neck is completely stiff from making out standing up.
If you notice that she's craning her neck a little bit, lead her over to a couch or the bed to make your make-out sesh more comfortable. Remember those gray areas I mentioned? This is one of them. When you're hooking up with someone new, you should be very cautious about getting rough. Yes, most people have engaged in some kind of rough sex according to blank about blank percent , but for some people, it is not their cup of tea.
Before you go full on Fifty-Shades, test the waters. And by test the waters I mean barely dip your toe at first. Lightly scratch her back, barely pull her hair, or when you kiss her hold her by her chin. Don't full on dig your nails in, don't yank her hair back, and don't choke her right off the bat. That's how you scare the shit out of someone who's vanilla as fuck.
If you're trying to get freaky, test the waters or straight up ask her. But, speaking for experience, a freaky girl will probably feel more comfortably asking for what she wants. For some reason, women sometimes find it harder to communicate their needs in bed. So, make sure that when you're hooking up ask what feels good. Usually you can base what's feeling good off of her physical reactions. For instance, if she's moaning or arching her back whatever you're doing probably feels good.
If she's not making any noise or pulling away from your motions, then whatever you're doing probably doesn't feel so great. If you can't figure out where she's at, then ask. Just by saying something like "Does that feel good, babe? If you're attempting anything particularly acrobatic during a first or second hookup, then you're fucking up. Not only are you probably doing the aforementioned sex position wrong but you're putting future hookup opportunities at risk.
Crazy Kama Sutra positions are completely off limits for when you first start hooking up with someone. You should stick to basic positions think missionary and doggy when you start hooking up with someone. Once you've established some trust, then put your life in their hands by attempting any wild sex positions. While you shouldn't try to twist your body into a pretzel while having sex with someone for the first — or second — time, you shouldn't just stick to missionary.
Think about how you can spice up basic or minimally physically demanding positions. Something as simple as raising her legs over your shoulders during missionary or pulling her upright during doggy to kiss her shows variation. Another pretty basic way to change it up is to throw a pillow under her back in missionary or under her knees in doggy to change the angle at which you're thrusting.
You can also fuck around the house. Don't just keep it on the bed. Bang on the floor. Bang on the couch. Bang in the kitchen. Just make sure your roommates aren't home….
Sex doesn't end when you cum. I'm going to say that again for the people in the back: Contrary to popular belief, the male orgasm does not signify the end of sex. For the love of god, please don't cum, roll over, and fall asleep. At the very least take a breather before continuing to work your lady over. Her pleasure is just as important as yours. However, if she makes it clear that she's done but hasn't cum, that's okay too.
Don't push your partner to cum if she's having a hard time getting there. The female orgasm can be elusive to most females themselves. So don't make them feel bad if they couldn't get there. And don't feel bad either. Having an orgasm hinges heavily on trust and feeling completely relaxed.
Both of those things usually come with hooking up a few times. Please don't leave her there coverd in your cum Get the girl a towel. Better yet, help the girl out. This should go without saying, yet here I am. So you got laid! Good for you, my dude! Now the key is to not act like a total weirdo now that you've banged this girl. Here are a few key steps to proper post-hookup etiquette:. Gauging when you should leave can be difficult. Eharmony uk, vitamins and user friendly.
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